Second Childhood

tallest lego tower

She sprinkled the blue play doh into the plastic cup. “Sugar!” she announced cheerfully, handing me the “tea”. The kindergartener had bopped between serving me tea and working hard at the plastic tool bench. The purple wrench was her favorite.

Primary Project began yesterday, and I conducted three sessions. Each of the three children were drastically different in their play, from this buzzing kindergartener to the two shyer 1st graders. My legs got cramped and cold from sitting on the floor, and the “child led play” philosophy was completely contrary to my behavioral training instincts.

I had so much fun!

I had forgotten what it was like to play with a child. Not lead, not limit, not be an adult. And while playing house was never my favorite game, building lego towers and mushing play doh was always exciting. Although the design does not permit me to build my own tower (sigh) it really was a fantastic way to play vicariously through the child. Interacting with specific scripts and engaging body movements enhanced my attunement with each child, and it did not matter that my hands were not the ones on the legos.

I sincerely hope these kids had as much fun as I did! By the way, where were these circus legos when I was a kid?

About sthurstonmspp

I am a 28-year-old-School-Psychology-CAGS/PsyD-student. Whew, what a mouthful. Journey and Styx rock my world, and some hardcore volleyball makes it go round n' round. I have spend the past six years working at a school/residential facility for children with emotional and behavioral disorders, and when I tried to quit in order to begin grad school, it just didn't take- I continue to pick up shifts every week so I can see my kids. I am a new homeowner about 40 minutes outside of Boston (another favorite band) with my husband and my 3 year old (rescued) mutt, Maisy. I am going to do my best to invite you inside my thoughts as I continue my grad school career- enter at your own risk!
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19 Responses to Second Childhood

  1. Lego 4148 says:

    That looks like so much fun. I remember the days of playing with my brother with what I thought at the time was the biggest box of lego. I don’t think it would match up to yours.

  2. Lego is a great way of engaging kids. It really builds their logic and creative skills.

  3. charlie says:

    It’s very satisfying to build something and see the result. It’s creative, intuitive and the characters are great…”
    webmaster of Millennium Falcon Lego

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  6. It’s kind of liberating to play with kids that way. Thanks.

  7. That’s an awesome tower! I live 5 minutes from Legoland and my kids are always begging to buy more legos! They sure get expensive!

  8. How much do you think that Tower cost them?! Each lego typically, what 10 cents a piece?

  9. Why I can’t see the picture?

  10. Playing with kids always gives adults more fun than any other things.

  11. What a tall tower! Is it real?

    • Supers says:

      out there about Lego parties (I was rlaely just looking for a Lego picture for my shout out to MoneyWiseMom’s Post) I found momadvice’s party post that she wrote. Who knew Logo Birthday Parties were such a

  12. Playing with my daughter that way makes me feel so free! Thanks.

  13. lego says:

    Ooh i loved lego when i was younger, its still so popular and some great choices now for new lego games etc

  14. Good post, Like to read here.

    Thanks!

  15. It can be amazing and educational to play with a child and let them lead. Thanks.

  16. web to print says:

    Funny. Where is that tower?

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